If someone had
told me when I was 16 wearing the #9 on my back and playing 2nd base
that 12 years later I would be coaching girls softball in Kenya from scratch I
would’ve asked where that crazy idea came from. I am working with a great group of girls in Namboboto. I started teaching softball last
October and since then we have had 3 months of holiday breaks. I have the girls for 3 hours a
week. So roughly we have been
playing now for 90 hours. The
point at where we started is unrecognizable to where their skills are now. But it is not their understanding of
the game that is the success of this story.
I have watched the girls gain confidence and come out of
their shells. The field was heavy
with insecurity when we began.
Many girls sat on the sidelines watching and were too scared to put a
glove on their hand or pick up the bat.
We have new members joining each month. They have learned to be comfortable with one another and I
have gained their trust. Through
this sport they now come to me with problems and issues they are facing in
their lives. Ten months ago it was
hard to get a smile and laughter was not heard. The field is a different place now with laughter, girls
calling out plays, and encouragement for fellow teammates.
The progress that has been made in such a short time is
phenomenal. I have 11 more months
with these girls (but with breaks really only 8). They will be pros by the time I say my goodbyes (and that
comment reflects them and not my coaching skills.). I am incredibly proud of them. Who knew that with a simple game of hitting, throwing, and
catching a ball a group of girls could gain such a sense of empowerment. (Of course this was my hope.) It has been my privilege and joy to get
to watch and be a part. I look
forward to looking back a year from now and being just as amazed at their
growth as stand out community members and fantastic softball players.
And now for the bloopers reel. I wish I had these on film. Over the course of our practices all these things have
happened…
- Of course the infamous how do I put this glove on? Ok coach, I’m ready. Umm, you only need one glove go ahead
and take that second one off.
Also, your glove is on backwards.
- Ah when you are up to bat you don’t need your glove as
well, just the bat will do.
- My first base woman ran to second after the opposing team
member hit the ball. First base
where you going, yo?
- My pitcher loves to windmill about 7 times before she
pitches the ball. So you are
standing at home plate thinking is she gonna throw the ball? Is it coming now? Now? How about now?
Ah man there was the pitch.
- One of my players ran right into the second base
woman. She leveled her. Let’s leave American football out of
this one girls.
- I have a girl who still insists on hitting like she is
golfing. She keeps the bat down to
the ground then brings it up at the pitch. She hits it though so I guess I’ll quit trying to tweak her
style.
A couple months ago some nearby PCV’s came out to play with
the team. We had a great time and
the girls absolutely LOVED it!
I know a bunch of youth back home who play that I wish I
could put on a plane and have them help me. Up until now I’ve basically been coaching a peewee league
but they are 17! It’s been
interesting/hilarious/entertaining to teach a sport that your players have
never seen.
Oh I get this a lot too…If it is called softball, why isn’t
the ball soft?
We still have much progress to make. They still struggle with first tagging
their base, for the force out, before throwing the ball to another base. But we are working on how to make
double and dare I say triple plays happen.
A couple months ago they received mosquito nets from Calvary
and FFUMC in Franklin, KY. After a
show of hands all but 1 of the girls have had malaria at some point. A lot of people are working to change
that.
Speaking of nets and malaria. I have been asked by PC to be a Stomp Out Malaria volunteer
for my province in Kenya. I’m
crazy excited and honored to partner with others and work further towards
eradicating malaria. Oh and the
training is in SENEGAL! Don’t mind
if I do.
Wonderful way to give some confidence to women. In South Africa, boys were always playing outside but girls never seemed to play,except for netball in school. Our daughter did not have friends while our sons always had lots of boys to play with. Girls were always doing work at home instead of playing.
ReplyDeleteKenya used to field a men's cricket team. The girl who was trying to "golf" the ball was trying to play cricket which has a couple of related plays to softball.
Malaria does not have to be allowed to kill as it much as it does. Everyone of our FMC pastors got malaria at some time. None of our family did in 28 years of living in South Africa. Our house was situated on too high of elevation for the malarial mosquitos but we were in malarial areas every weekend. Insecticides on the walls of homes and our heavy use of mosquito repellent were the two things that saved us.
At one point, the SA government outlawed DDT but the deaths from malaria sky-rocketed until they re-introduced it. They found that only a very weak solution is needed to be sprayed on inside walls. I have observed the ubiquitous flies turning around midflight at the doorway of a sprayed home. Hope you get to go to Senegal.