When I was trapesing the path to where I lived for my first
10 weeks in country and sinking in a foot of dust I was wondering if my then 6
year old brother, Jeremy, would remember me. When I turned the corner to my street Jeremy and the
neighbor kids were outside kicking a futbol made of plastic bags and
twine. It was just as I remembered. Jeremy saw me and even though
it had been a year and my hair had grown about 7 inches he shouted Sarah! We shared a high 5 and I couldn’t have
been happier that he knew who I was.
In fact the neighborhood kids recognized me as well - asking me to take
their picture. It was as if I
hadn’t even left. What’s funny is
I now have pictures of the neighborhood crew doing almost the exact same poses
from a year ago and now present.
My mama and baba weren’t home that evening so I returned the
next day. However, that evening my
baba called me and wanted to come and get me from the hotel PC had put me up
in. He told me that PC didn’t need
to put me in a hotel. When I was
there I should stay with them because that is also my home. The next couple days while I was in
town I stopped by after the 9 hour training days for way too many cups of chai
and some goat I choked down. I couldn't get my mama to look at the camera or smile, but that's how you take pics in Kenya.
I was glad for the opportunity to spend some time with my
host family. After all much credit
goes to them for getting me started in Kenya. Oh and I spent probably an hour with my neighbor girl Beth
talking and catching up. She was
so much help teaching me Kiswahili.
She remains one of the coolest 12 year olds I know. She visited with me while she did
chores and cooked dinner for her grandmother and brother who were in the market
selling vegetables.
My first morning there I woke up to a picturesque view of
Mount Kilimanjaro. It never
got old during training and I was looking forward to seeing it again. It is on my top 10 of coolest things I have seen. I count myself lucky to have had Kili as my view for 10 weeks of my life.
Before I went to training I met up with some friends for the
weekend for a birthday celebration of one of my PC besties.
It takes me a couple days to get to my site from LTK so I
spent the night in Nairobi. I had
a hot shower and ate yummy food and decided to continue my treat-yo-self
day. My hair has grown pretty fast
and well it's not as easy washing it in a bucket so I got up the courage to walk
in a hair salon and ask if they could chop my hair off. I had a picture with me and this dude
that was a swanky L.L. Cool J look-a -like swore to me he could do it. By that point it was too late for me to
get out of the chair and leave.
His techniques didn’t exactly capture my hair from my picture but it’s
cool I live in a village. It had
been over a year since I had been in a salon. Most hair cutting places here are tiny metal shacks that you
can stretch your arms out and reach both sides. Also, no kidding they have sweet names like Cleaver Hair
Salon. So you can get a chop of
meat and your hair did with the same knife. They washed my hair with 3 different products. I forgot how awesome that part is. They were probably wondering why I
hadn’t washed my hair in over a year.
In 7 days I stayed in 4 different locations and traveled for
34 hours. It felt great to be home
and felt great that when I say home I mean Namboboto. (Of course I still long for home
home…America!)
I had chalk drawings on my stoop and a bouquet of weeds
stuffed in my padlock from my village kids when I returned. And of course it was only minutes
before this little one came to give me a hug .
Thanks for trying to help us to see in a small way how people in the rest of the world outside the USA live. In small quarters; old taking care of very young; young taking care of younger; teen-age head of households; choose who eats today and who goes to school today. One set of identical twins in our church only had one set of clothes so they switched off going places (probably school too). Their mother and father were in final AIDS stages. Because father missed so much work (he brought home HIV from contacts at work) that they did not have enough money for food or school uniforms. The kids would not feel like going to school because they were hungry, so mother would start thrashing them to get them out the gate, then come to me and ask if God will forgive her for hitting her kids?
ReplyDeleteYes, Sarah, one has to shut down emotionally to survive a journey across this land of beautiful people, sons and daughters who look like Adam and Eve. But I am so glad you had the courage to go and love.